I’m pregnant and my bf constantly doe’s disrespectful things I had to tell him if he even speaks to his ex I’ll leave him like last weekend . Last night he was showing people pictures of his ex’s butt . In front of me .
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i left my partner for much less tbh, no chance i’d sit around while he’s showing off his EX in front of me. it’s inconsiderate and disrespectful. if he treats you this way while pregnant that shows a lot about his character.

Why does he even have that?

Have your tied couples therapy so he understands how hurtful this is and how sensitive u are now pregnant.

I do not recommend couples therapy if he’s doing stuff like this. This is reaching the level of emotionally abusive, and it is HIGHLY recommended to NOT do couples counseling in abusive relationships. This isn’t just disrespectful, he’s outright humiliating her and playing with her head and emotions.

yea he definitely should not still have those pictures, that’s already a whole problem in itself

I didn’t read any signs of physical or verbal abuse and emotional abuse was not expressed by the victim. Therefore, if she wants to stay w him, as a licensed clinical professional I wouldn’t tell her what to do I would respect her wishes IF she is coherent. This is actually on my licensure exam that I passed ;).
I wish her well and open communication to discuss or perhaps she can speak w a therapist and reflect on what SHE wants.