Sex life post baby

I need help!! I love having sex with my husband, before my baby it was magical literally an amazing experience every time. Now, after the baby, it’s like not terrible but I just want something more? My husband is not into like role playing/sex toys any of that stuff and I wouldn’t say I’m opposed to it I’ve just never tried it. How would you approach the situation? Tips to improve sex life? I want spicy and kinky

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You need to be honest and open if you can be. Communicate your needs and wants! Drop some suggestions into conversation about sex toys ect. My husband is very open to trying most things, and sex toys are used on a very regular basis here. Sex toys are just something to add to the experience for you both

If you want to try sex toys maybe start with a clitoral stimulating toy instead of a vibrator or dildo like the rose or the bullet. I think some men get intimidated by toys that penetrate you. And maybe use the toys in front of him to get him aroused and then he should wanna join you.

Read or watch porn together. And be okay with things being awkward while you figure it out. The porn helps cus it gives ideas/ a script to go from which takes pressure off

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