Cheating

No. I couldn't even think about anything like that with another man because my partner is my whole world.
I'd never be able to trust him again and could never forgive him if he cheated on me. You didn't mean enough to him the first time, why would you this time?

No, being in love with someone you never have a thought about being with a man not woman other then your significant other, you can forgive but from experience you won’t ever trust again even if you try it will always be in the back of your mind

No. He not only risked your physical health ( std ) , but your mental health . Having your question your worth or what you did wrong . People who cheat are disgustingly selfish.

I think cheating with sex definitely not 100% relationship over! But depending on the type of cheating, it's possible to fix but won't be an easy journey.

No, you don’t hurt someone you love like that. I love my bf and the thought of ever being with anyone else has never crossed my mind

Unpopular Opinion Coming !!!

I don’t believe that a man’s value is in his penis. I truly believe that men have the ability to separate sex and love and whether we want to accept it or not , every man in the Bible enjoyed multiple women. When I say a man’s value is not in his penis it’s because a man’s role has always been to provide and protect. Now we can say OMG it’s 2023 blah blah blah but the reality is if a bad guy breaks into your home you’re turning to your man , if the bills get behind you’re angry at your man.

I do believe that modern men out of respect try not to cheat but having sex with another woman is probably not going to be enough for me to end my relationship especially if it was just sex. Now if we’re talking dating , providing , nurturing and pouring into another woman YEP I’m out but if he just had sex with her and kept it moving , that’s on her and her standards. Also was this a one time thing or multiple women cuz that changes things.

Hell no.

No. If someone loves you they wouldn’t cross that line. If they do cross it, it’s because deep down they don’t. So you can go ahead and assume it’ll happen again

No because willpower. I have crushes but because i love my husband I don't go beyond that line but thats just me..

Cheating with sex NEVER, but if it’s an odd text and he never does it again then maybe he made a mistake. If u forgive him and it happens a second time he definitely does NOT love you.

I hope your not being cheated on, if you are I’m sending so may hugs your way. Not a nice thing to experience.

Be strong girly 🩷

No. Someone who truly loves and respects you wouldn't even consider doing that to you.

No. If he cheats he doesn’t respect you and at his core isn’t happy in the relationship and shouldn’t be in it.

Cheating isn’t just “oh they stepped out” they betrayed your trust, crossed the boundaries of y’all’s relationship, potentially put you at risk for an STI, potentially could have gotten another person pregnant, spending money out of YALLS household (gas/food/condom/drinks/lube/hotel), or got them up in yalls house, can have other women/men literally out here clowning you like no mam

How do you love me and don’t respect my body, my feelings, or my mind? 💀💀

Personally no, if he truly loves you he wouldn't be interested in others.

And vice versa. If you truly love them why would you look elsewhere.

Cheating is a choice. No matter the circumstances or alcohol or whatever it's still a choice that is made in that moment x

I’m not sure tbh, I just don’t think they respect or care for you.

I think they love the thought of you and as soon as someone else comes along they also love the thought of them. Trust is like a wrinkled up peice of paper. You can straighten it out and say you're sorry all you want, but it'll never be the same

Never say never ladies. Men make mistakes. But women do too. Real talk. We are all human. We all slip up some how. Someway. U ain’t gotta sleep with the person to be considered a cheater. It’s up to u to forgive the person or not. But remeber. if the shoe were on the other foot. Wouldn’t u wanna be forgiven????

No I wouldn’t want to be forgiven because then I’d be in the same relationship I was unhappy enough to cheat in. I’d rather learn move on and do better and hopefully find the person that makes me never think to cheat.

Cheating is a choice, not a mistake. It takes lying and hiding and that's not a mistake, that takes thought.

exactly. They made an active decision it was just a bad one they regret. Lol

were talking about a 1 time cheater. Not a cheater who makes a hobby out of it. That’s diffrent. I wouldn’t waste my time if it’s a constant pattern. No thanx.

Yes I know what we are talking about lol. Doesn’t change my opinion

your perspective somewhat open my eyes. When I first started reading I’m like this girl tripping but after finishing, I’m like… she made some valid points. Cause when you think about it, most women cheat with a guy who provides something for her for the time being. Emotional support, maybe financially. Etc. there are woman who can fuck a guy and be on their merry way but a good majority of woman will cheat with a man who had provided for them for the time being which is why most men when a woman cheat, can’t just forgive and forget. They ready to bounce. Men cheat to get a nut. It sucks but hey it’s reality in today’s world unfortunately. I’ve cheated in a past relationship I had because the guy was providing me what I wasn’t getting from my exhusband.

most people be in denial I refuse lol. People spend so much time saying what they would do if it was them but the truth is no one really knows what they would do until they’re faced with the situation. If you ask an old couple how they stayed married for so long they will say a lot of patience and a lot of forgiveness.