So I finally healed over the hurt my baby father put me through I decided to let him come around when my daughter arrives , I went no contact with him my whole pregnancy but he still made the effort to reach out still to be in her life even though he told me he doesn’t think he’s the father saying he wants a paternity test. Would you still let him in the delivery room or would you tell him she’s here or after have her ?
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Depends what he did
he cheated

If you need more time to think about it, just make sure you don't put him on the birth certificate for now

So HE cheated and he’s the one saying he wants a paternity test?! Not a hope in hell would I be letting him in that delivery room, you don’t need that stress while you’re pushing out a baby
yes girl a paternity test 😭 but when dudes get caught up they always try and flip it like he’s the victim

I’d let him come.