Leaving my partner…

Sorry to hear your story, it sounds like you’re in a really difficult position and that you aren’t sure what to do for a couple of different reasons!

It sounds like since you’ve been together you’ve been on a rollercoaster of hormones and that won’t be helping the situation!

I think it’s defo a good idea to do the therapy like you said as that may help you make a decision either way!!

I would talk to him about these feelings you’re having. I would be hesitant to leave the relationship before you start therapy, it sounds like your self doubt is playing a big role in this and you may be able to improve your relationship once that improves.

Think of your child and what’s in the best interest of them in seeing how a relationship should function.
You set the precedents for what they view as acceptable later on.

NOT Saying you’re doing anything wrong, just saying you both deserve to be happy whether it be with eachother or separate. But could help to make your decision based off of what is going to ultimately make you happy, which in turn will make you even happier for your baby.

Hello, so sorry you’re going through this. It’s the worst feeling ever. I also fell pregnant quickly. Only 2 weeks after meeting/hanging out with someone. We weren’t even in a relationship and a few months in and during the pregnancy all I thought of was leaving. Wasn’t happy at all but didn’t know how it could work financially and just physically with a baby. Bub is now 9 months and I am happy in the relationship but it took me so long and I still get really negative thoughts.
I’m not saying you should stay, but I think you should work on your mental state before leaving. Finding happiness and clarity will help whether you stay or leave. And helps you make better decisions.
I worked super hard for many months and feel soooooo much better tackling life in a good mindset.
Not sure if it helps you but I wish you the very best. Happiness is within you and you can absolutely feel it and should on a regular basis 🥰🥰🥰

I agree with everyone that you should seek counseling very first thing. You mention depression, you need some screening, counseling and treatment for that before you try to leave.

I do think you may think about seeking therapy & to love yourself first before leaving a really good man who loves you and his child.

Sometimes it’s actually almost impossible to love a good guy who treats you well when you don’t love yourself.

When we’re feeling down, we think it’s due to the person we’re with but being happy is an internal job. It has nothing to do with him.

So please don’t leave just yet. If he wasn’t so emotionally available and sweet you’d actually love him because it would validate for you how you feel about yourself.

Crazy! Right? I say this from experience, I only liked bad guys for a long time until I met my husband. He’s amazing and there are days Im not sure I’m in love with him and I remind myself it’s a commitment we’ve made to continue to fall in love and grow together.

I truly pray 🙏🏽 you love yourself & love your life. It’s never greener on the other side

Do the therapy, then make life changing decisions!!
I'm so sorry you're going through all this, hopefully the medication and therapy will help!!
Please don't make rash decisions and talk after the intense therapy!!
Wish you the best of luck hun!!
And if all this is over and you truly are not in love with him still, leaving is the right thing to do!!

Wishing you well! I agree with others to work out the therapy and medication and then think through the relationship. You shouldn’t feel trapped but know you have time to work it all out.