Feel ashamed of myself and feel like a h*e

I feel guilt and shame and feel terrible bc I have 2 BDs and my kids are only a yr apart. I'm struggling financially at 32 with 2 kids. I just got my own place at 32.

Still in school and feel like a failure. I feel I'm drowning in motherhood. I feel alone but it's my fault for being fast.

I feel so stupid ans slutty and feel thata why people don't like me and I have a hard time making friends.

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No that is not a reason to have a hard time making friends babe if people don't like you because of your sex life that's weird hun I'll be your friend you your not a hoe your just fertile girls have waayyyyy more sex than you do! You can do to the dcf office and apply for assistance if your needing helps its okay its hard being a mother single or not! If you want to talk I'm here ❤️

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It sounds to me like you’re making big moves. You’re navigating motherhood, and it’s hard. The thief of joy is comparison. We all have different seasons of life and experience success at different times. But we cannot base our success merely on financial success and prosperity… there will be a time when school is finished, when you are working in a field and maybe when you have your own businesses. You are not a failure - you are doing GREAT. There’s a lot of ways to make money online that are not scams - i suggest looking into E-commerce or something of that sort. Ways to make money online that don’t have you phishing or doing anything illegal - look up Amazon FBA, Etsy Digital Products, becoming an Affiliate, starting a blog. You’d be surprised how many sources of income there are now - the feeling of being trapped is because of our own limitations. You’re also not stupid or a slut - honestly it’s just hard making friends now. The avg age of success is 35-45.

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Thank you guys. I have a hard time being ans feeling confident in myself

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