Has anyone requested an elective c section due to being really fearful of labour and birth. I've been trying hard to just get on with it but I'm severely anxious and would like an elective, has anyone else done this, were the NHS OK about it or was it a massive battle? Thanks
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Hi, not exactly the same circumstances but I am having an elective due to trauma (not birth related but sexual and made me fearful of certain aspects of labour) and I have not had to fight at all. The midwives I have had so far have supported it, the MH team have and my consultant has (have consultant Cs of a blood disorder). No one has tried to change my mind or even suggest it would be a problem. I'd suggest doing your own reading on the pros and cons to be sure it is what you want but they will definitely listen to a valid reason š

I did with my son and am doing the same in this pregnancy. I have really bad anxiety and had 3 miscarriages before my son so was so anxious about giving birth and just wanted him safely, so elected for a c section, the doctors were understanding but did try to talk me round to having him naturally, but once I said how I felt then they were happy for me to have the c section x with my current pregnancy when asked in the beginning I said due to anxiety I would like another c section and they have not question it so far, hope that helps xxx

Hi ya, I was really anxious all through my first pregnancy and ended up having to have an emergency Caesarian, but I wish I had just had the guts to say I wanted an elective in the first place.
2nd time around , Iāve asked for an elective Caesarian and there has been no resistance from the hospital etc but I would kick off if there was. Like, do what you need to do, itās no one elseās bloody business. š¤·š»āāļø

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