My almost 13 month is dropping his second nap, he’s sleeping from 9-45-11:45/12 now and then up until 6:30/7pm.

I can’t seem to get him to stay up in morning as he is very grumpy if he doesn’t have boob and contact nap before 10am the latest! Anyone else in process of extending morning wake window too? Won’t it be odd for them to nap over lunch though?

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My little one seems to be refusing his afternoon nap too lately, his morning nap is usually around 10 or 10.30 till 11.30 or 12ish. I haven’t bothered trying to change the morning nap and he’s still been going to bed ok without the afternoon nap 🤷🏻‍♀️

Mine is in this weird transitional phase too. He is a mess if he isn't asleep by 9:30/10 and we are often waking him after 1.5 hours now and then he has a 30/45 min one late afternoon and it's pushing bedtime later and later.
I have a couple of friends who's kids were the same and they ended up having 2/2.5 hours around 10am and then bed around 6:30 which is what it looks like ours will be.

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