Do you feel annoyed when your own mom shows up at your door unannounced

I know it’s my own mom but I just get annoyed when she shows up at my door without texting or calling. She lives only 20 minutes away and she comes by 2-4 times a week to see the baby. I mean, she’s always welcomed to visit, but I wish she could let me know beforehand especially in the morning when the baby and I are still in bed.

Is it just me?

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I don't but my mom also wouldn't show up that early since they have to get their chores done and cow milked. Have you talked to her? Maybe just ask if she can shoot a text before she leaves her house so you've got 20 min at least to get yourself together.

My mom was doing this on purpose to check how I was doing things. One day she came and knocked on the door, my baby was sleeping in the living room and woke up I opened the door screaming, everybody else knows to call before coming. She left, she hasn’t been back 😥

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