My fiancé and I was more intimate in closer before we move now since our recent move to Texas our sex drive have decrease which was fine for me at first because I just found out I was pregnant when I first got here and my sex drive was

Gone. Currently now in my 2nd trimester it has pick back up in for a min the sex had became normal it start pick back up.But let me just say it wasn’t just the sex it was him been under me kissing me and rubbing on me all that has change he stay up to 3am to 4am on his game and im certain it’s on the phone the phone is hiding when I am awake. he is starting to hang with friends more which is cool with me but honestly I don’t have friends here so I be very bored in plus I’m trying gather our home and process my pregnancy it’s a lot things we need get done .it’s soon as I get off work some days he leave . Idk I wanna let this relationship go but at same token idk if it’s me .He help me in is their but something just feel really off with this relationship. I also heard him moan in sleep last night which concern me idk if I should kick up any dust about it I’m losing myself driving myself crazy trying to figrue this out … he call hisself reasurring me that isn’t anything going . I need advice ladies

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I mean, if your intuition is throwing warning alarms at you that there is something “off”, definitely take that into consideration. What catches me off guard is your comment about how he hides his phone when you’re awake. That isn’t normal. My advice is to keep yourself observing your partner, noticing anymore unusual behaviours. If more stuff comes up, or keeps happening, then I’d probably peace out of that relationship.

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