Cutting baby nails

Ahh this is the bane of my life.. so my little boys claws grow so quick and it’s a nightmare when it’s time to trim them. He hates me cutting them and I have to do it when he’s asleep but he’s the worst. He’s such a light sleeper and it’s like he knows we’re doing his nails. Just want some suggestions on what are you guys using? I bought that battery power filer with the round discs and I tried that when he was very small but it was so sharp that I nearly cut him so I threw that in the back of the drawer. At the moment I’m doing them with baby scissors and filing them down. I need to always keep his nails short because he’s got eczema so he literally scratches himself until he bleeds 😞 any help will be amazing xx

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I feel your pain, my little boy hates it as well. The best I've got is to put on his favourite tv show, sit him on your lap facing outwards and hug him tight, holding the hand/finger you want to trim in one hand and the clippers in the other. I use the baby nail clippers as never got on well with scissors. Then once it's done sign all done to him as he know that and just hug and praise him. He's got a bit better but when he was really bad I used to just cut 1 or 2 nails everyday to keep on top of it but not stress him out too much.
I've also heard it's good to cut them after a bath as they're softer but I work evenings and that's when my husband baths him so that's not an option as dad won't cut nails 😂

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I used to use those baby electric files but find they’re a bit useless now that the nails are a lot stronger. I just use a mini nail clipper, and always have to put on something like miss Rachel. I always say to her I’m going to cut your nails now, please can you sit still for me because I don’t want to hurt you, and I sing songs and and keep it entertaining. I count it down as I cut it…like I say ohh 6 more to go you’re doing so well. Always works for me, sometimes she will watch me cutting it because she finds it interesting?😂

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I always try and do them after a bath his nails are so much softer but honestly it stresses me out because the way he pulls back 😞 I’m going to try the nail clippers next time and see how I get on with them.

miss Rachel is his mummy 😂 he loves that woman so I’ll see if that works and if he lets me cut his nails whilst watching her. The whole nail cutting process is just stressful for me lol

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Yep! Literally just done them this evening! We hate it, but they were so long and she had scratched herself while at nursery on her face (felt bad) but we also put it off.

We do it while giving a bottle. She literally pulls away now. But I'll give the bottle and sing a nursery song and my partner will just be hold her hand down to do it

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Sorry this is long, I hope some of you get to the end and give advice!!!

So I’m a very thrifty person, things are tight at the moment, the cost of living crisis and my house is heated by oil so things are extortionate. We aren’t on the bread line but we aren’t flush, hubby might be made redundant so there is some financial pressure.

Sometimes I buy my sons something nicer, on the justification that I can sell it on after (♥️ vinted ♥️). I have also been planning on pretty much breaking even most of the baby things I bought from face book market place, side by crib, baby changing unit, etc.

Hubby and I have different money cultures with our families (he’s Indian, I’m British). I’m my family we don’t mix money, we would help each other out if someone was in trouble and will get each other gifts on special occasions. With hubby’s family money is much more fluid, they will give each other things worth thousands of £ just because.

Hubby’s brother bought him a new laptop and a new Google phone, he’s been very generous to hubby. Hubby hasn’t given the same back because brother is much richer.

Hubby and I mostly share finances. If it’s relevant I’m the higher earner.

Now to the point! My babies are so cute they’ve given hubby’s brother (currently single) baby rabies. He’s asked for our baby stuff when we’re done with it. He’s been so generous to hubby I feel really stingy saying no. But I’d never have bought some of the stuff if I wasn’t going to get a return on it - the thought makes me a bit anxious. If we gave all our baby stuff given the second hand value it still wouldn’t equal what the brother had given hubby.


I thought maybe I could give him some stuff but sell some stuff, but hubby said then his brother will just have to go out and buy that stuff, so I should name my price and ask his brother for the money. That makes me feel very uncomfortable, given how generous the brother has been to hubby.

So what do I do ladies? Give it all and suck it up? Give part of it and sell parts on Vinted/FB, or ask hubbys brother for money for it and be uncomfortable? Or do you see another solution?

No one is being entitled or rude here, just a culture difference I need to navigate.

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