Anyones baby scored low during health visitor questionnaires?

I haven’t had my 12 month review yet but was checking the questionnaire and my girl scores literally zero for personal social skills - she can’t do any of those things. Every other category she is high. She walks and talks but can’t seem to do any personal social skills like handing me an object, throwing me a ball, push her arm through when getting dressed, doesn’t hug a stuffed toy.

What could this mean?
& has anyone been referred at all?

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I wouldn’t panic, she might be doing some of them in a month or two. They’re all different. At my review the health visitor went through the questionnaire and scored my little one on things I thought were zero, like he hugs me but not a toy, so he got a point for that 😄
Ive heard that Sometimes babies just focus on one area of development at a time, so if they’re busy learning to walk they’ll work on other stuff later x

Exactly as above! Don't panic. If she can walk well and talk then she clearly has been focusing on other skills. She will get there. It's so easy for us to panic because we care about them so much. 😘 if anything the HV might give some tips on how to get her to do those things! X

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