Or happy with your partner?
Since my son was born, our relationship has gone downhill. Adding up a very consuming and manipulative mother-in-law and family-in-law.
I'm very unhappy with my husband to the point I don't feel love anymore. The context is very complicated. I think marriage shouldn't be this difficult.
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All marriages go through stages after you give birth, I think is normal. Just give it time and follow your instincts

We are happily married even after our daughter was born. We had more love for each other. Give time hun and best way is to communicate with each other and share feelings. Be each other best friends x
Best thing is to stay away from in-laws family and reconnect relationship between you and him. Go to hotel for few nights then make it work hun or outing x
Thank you so much! I’ve been giving it time. Sometimes we are great and a few months after I can’t stand it any more.

I was with my husband for 11 years before we had our son so when he was born it was a huge change, there were times I felt like I hated my husband especially when he went to work and I had a screaming baby!! I always loved him but was jealous, we still have our moments now especially if our son is being a handful but things are a million times better, we just needed time to adjust to being responsible for this tiny human rather than just being a couple

No🥲. Feel like we are just room mates since my little girl was born. I’m her primary caregiver so I’m always tired. And don’t have attention to my other half. But tbh he isn’t really trying either .
Thank you for your messages. I feel that I’m not alone, and it must be a phase 🙏🏻 preying for all of us to have happy relationships in the chaos of parenting.