Finally ready to leave

How do I deal with finally leaving my child’s father! It’s been 5 almost 6 long, draining years and I am finally ready to be free and happy. I want the shackles off.

We share a one and almost three year old daughter, his help is needed in the house and I also don’t drive in an area where you have to drive. We moved up from nyc last year, I got my permit but no license yet.

I’d hate to inconvenience anyone in helping with transporting my kids and I every day, however, I just want out!

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I would recommend making sure you have a place to stay, money and a support system. Are you married? Will you need to go to court for child support etc?

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not married. I pay the rent in the apartment, he pays for the car of course and childcare every week.

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