I appreciated when people brought diapers to my gender reveal. Or one person got me a picture frame with an ink pad for the babies foot. Or another person got me a lamb stuffed animal for the baby. I appreciated all of it. The diapers are probably the most useful gift though.
Gender neutral outfit diapers or wipes something any baby would need
Your mother taught you right, I teach my kids the same thing! While I love the idea of diapers and wipes, I feel like the mom gets put aside. Maybe get the mommy to be something. Like a wine for after the baby, or a self care gift or a basket of her favorite snacks if you know it or flowers. Just an idea
I second Rains idea. Celebrate MOM on this day, maybe a gift card for a pre natal massage. Or a weightless float tank session (if you don’t know what that is, look it up, it was FANTASTIC at 38 weeks!) a gift basket for an at home pampering day?
Diapers or wipes