I laboured for 44 hours and got to 10cm,, i had 13 vaginal exams in just 10 hours my cervix was like a balloon by the end of it baby couldnt even try to get through then had major decels. I struggled to bond with baby for while tbh like obviously i loved him for the second he cried but it took a long time to feel like his mum i couldnt hold him until we got to the ward and then we was in and out of the hospital once we finally got home i didnt produce any milk at all so i couldnt BF however next baby will definitely be an elective section i am genuinely traumatised from VEs
I laboured for 136 hours before my emergency c section I only got to 2.5cm ...and when I got into the c section room the numbing didn't work ,it only worked on one portion of my body so I was put to sleep ,for my future pregnancys I will have to have a C section with general anesthesic as my body doesn't respond the way it should đź’•
I had alot of checks I don't remember how many but I was very swollen,with the baby's head trying to come down my canal it was extremely painful
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I didn't have that specific issue, but I did get all the way through a 40 hour labor and 4 hours of pushing and ended with a C-section so I commiserate with the feeling of being robbed. I hope that you get whatever birth you're hoping for in the future