I’m 37 weeks and living with my partner currently. I’m constantly feeling like shit in terms of my body every night but on the nights that i’m okay i try to indicate sex (even if i don’t want it) because my partner doesn’t masterbate but i can tell he wants to have sex but doesn’t want to say it. So when we do have sex I’m not enjoying it at all but only continue because he’s 100% into it. I feel so bad.
Another thing he wants me to please him with a blowjob and sex but he stopped giving me head or sucking my boob because he doesn’t want anything strange in his mouth lol.
But he loves a blowjob😂.
Is this normal or should I bring it up? or wait to see how things play out after the 6 weeks PP.
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I was the same way, only pretend to enjoy for his satisfaction. And the blowing was almost night because I was not in the mood lol
I'm hot 2 months post partum and the sex drive is definitely there but honestly hurts like hell.
But it is completely normal

He doesn’t want anything strange in his mouth? That’s a little ironic 🤣 I’d say just have an open conversation with him. Tell him how you’ve been feeling and figure out a nice middle ground between the both of you ❤️ I feel the same way, intimacy is important to me, but parts of it are beginning to be uncomfortable even though I’m down.
he probably doesn’t want my mucus plug to slide out or something 😭😂
sigh, at 2 months PP. I don’t want it to hurt 😭

Something my husband and have done a few times when he’s wanting sex and I’m not up for it that has been great is I’ll do some hand stuff for him and he’ll give me a nice long massage . We’re both getting intimacy/touch but in a way that we each need and that feels good for us.
Yeah mine would probably just not be satisfied after that

Honestly though, you’ve been suffering through massive changes to your body to grow a whole ass human for almost a year. He can deal with handies for a few weeks….. 🙄 he probably only had that option for AGES while he’s single. He can take one for the team. It’s reaaaaallly not a big ask or sacrifice to not get your most preferred sexual experience temporarily. Why is his short term satisfaction more important than your comfort right now?