👋🏼 Who are we all, and what’s your journey so far?

Hi everyone, newbie here and I’ve been trying to get my bearings and find my tribe. I’m hoping this is it 🤞🏼and would love to intro myself, and learn more about our active members and your journeys!

I’m Becki, 36. I have an amazing 15yr old son from a long-ago relationship. Me and my husband have been together 10yrs, married 7mths, & are starting TTC. I have Endo & of course I’m now considered ‘geriatric’ so the odds aren’t exactly in our favour. We’re actually currently on our month-long honeymoon in Vietnam 👀 but we have some lifestyle changes to make on our return to give ourselves the best possible chance. Here’s keeping everything crossed that 2024 is our year 🤞🏼🤞🏼 But officially, we’re only just getting started so it’s all a big unknown!

I’d love to know your situs and what your journey has been like to date, and can’t wait to get to know you all ❤️

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You're not considered 'geriatric' by the NHS until you're over 40 so you're a spring chicken! Good luck xx

I had no idea that was the case, that’s reassuring thank you! Dr Google only surfaced US results originally, seems they’re still seeing 35 as the cut off point there. I know it’s only a word but that psychologically makes a big difference ❤️

oh absolutely! I had my first at 36 and about to have my 2nd at 38 and I even asked about being 'geriatric' 😂 as long as you're relatively fit and healthy then that's all they care about xx

Hi Becki,
Welcome to my group. I hope you can find your tribe here 🥰❤️ congratulations on your wedding and honeymoon 🎉🎊 Vietnam is beautiful and one of my most favourite places I've visited.

I'm Lucy, 33 yrs old, 34 next month. I started trying Aug 22, was pregnant by Sept 22. Had a missed miscarriage by Nov 22 💔 which was incomplete so had a D&C in Dec 22. Started trying again from Jan 23. Made this group for all these lovely ladies so we could support one another. ❤️❤️

Then I had two chemicals, one in May, one in June, and then fell pregnant for the 4th time in July with my 🌈🌟 and I started taking progesterone pessaries and she stuck, finally 💗 currently 25 weeks pregnant. Any advice on ovulation tests, vitamins, cycles, etc I'm happy to help, I learnt so much in the year of ttc. Sending you baby dust 🌟🌟

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Has anyone else had issues with their friends that aren't pregnant or have kids?

I have a friend at work and we've become really close over the years. But ever since I become pregnant she just doesn't understand anything I'm going through which is fine except for the fact that the past few days I have been exhausted physically and socially. We have been helping another friend out for about a month now and we've had to keep him entertained as he's going through a rough time right now and it's drained me socially . my friend at work is frustrated because I'm not talking a lot and I'm exhausted and she doesn't understand why and I'm just curious if anybody else has had issues with friends that are not going to the same thing or have gone through the same thing as you connecting with you because she's literally mad at me. She stopped talking to me at work today and I just don't understand what to do.

Friends

I’ve been on this app for almost 5 years now I still can’t find one friend. I just need a friend. I’m so fucking lonely.

Spicy chat

Anyone up for a spicy chat, I’m horny

31 weeks pregnant and lonely

How to deal with loneliness in pregnancy when your boyfriend goes out with his friends drinking 😅🥲 I only have three friends, two are never really free and one lives back in Liverpool and has her own set of friends where she goes to raves and goes on holiday with them lol. My boyfriend is going out soon for the night as it’s sunny and I’ll just be sat here crying like every single time! When does it stop 🤣

STD rates and body count

Saw an interesting video and I’d love to hear everyone’s thoughts on this topic!

So std rates are at an all time high as we all know. Do you think the mindset that body count doesn’t matter has contributed to the significant increase of STDs and HIV?

Secondly if someone says that body count doesn’t matter do you believe they are less likely to practice safe sex compared to people who believe in more traditional values?

I can’t put all the combinations in the poll so feel free to comment just yes/no answers

(If you’re going to reply please keep your responses respectful and polite.)

Any moms in the DMV area?

Hey! 💕 I want to start a group chat or something so we can all connect.