Why my husband think I’m not suppose to have a social life?
I am a working mom, I want to say part time but off the clock at work I never get a break. when it comes to Friday and Saturday my husband is quick to get dressed and hangout with his friends who don’t have responsibilities like him (single life friends,) He will get so wasted that he got dropped off by an officer and another times he was stupid drunk sleep on the floor in front of our daughter. So here it is Friday I am sick I just got in with the kids and he’s so ready to go out he forgets to help me bring in the bags while I’m holding the baby. So I told him about himself. He tried to argue back defending himself but I told him I literally lost my fuxking socially life. I can’t recall the last time I had a break away from reality and talk to someone. I don’t get my hair done anymore nor get my nails done unless it’s special occasions. But I was fed up with this shit and told him how hard I work I feel like shit half the times. And you don’t think I can have time away from the family, the minute I go to my mom’s he’s bitching about how long I’m taking and it will be an hour. If he don’t change his mindset of a women I don’t think I can do this anymore because he got comfortable with this. Mind you I pay bills too, half the time he couldn’t do his part and I had to help him out so he won’t beg his siblings to borrow money. Are all men like this or am I with an selfish asshole
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Yea I’m sure not happy, don’t get me wrong sometimes he’s a good person but as time goes on his habits worsens he pick up more disgusting habits that I can’t stomach. When I try to talk to him he always shouts and curse like he’s not adult enough to talk. I just feel like giving up sometimes I just need peace
My man isn't like this at all my man stays home like I do to help with our son and we go to our friends house together and we work as a team when it comes taking care of the family and house I would threaten divorce if he continues with that attitude
No you're living with a selfish arsehole hun. Fuck him, leave his arse I know alot of women will say it but theirs no way I'd stay with a man like this! He's gross! When I read this I just think what a piece of shit he's not even a man
Hey sweetheart honestly I’m so sorry you’re going thru this love, but one thing imma tell you is to never help a man who’s capable to help himself.
I say this because I’m in a similar situation I also feel the same way only difference I say my husband down We spoke and he understood me now he helps out.
You need to do what’s best for you and your child/children.
Life is too short . Pls remember to look after yourself too mama ❤️.
If you have family members who can help you out that you trust you can drop your child/children off there for the whole day so you can have some you time and take the day as it comes.
The fact that you pay the bills he’s seeing it as a free pass. See it this way he’s living there for free, food is cooked, house is clean, laundry’s done so obviously he’s gonna get complacent he has nothing to lose. Why help a man who you know won’t help you?
Him being a nice person is great but actions speak louder than words, his actions are speaking volumes.
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You are living w a selfish asshole unfortunately. My hubby lets me 2 nights out of the house a week, he doesn’t ring or text or rush me unless I’m VERY late and got caught up chatting and didn’t realise the time. But he lets me go out and do my thang. I’d be very unhappy and overwhelmed if I couldn’t have my nights out.
as in I go out and he doesn’t complain. I can go out as many times as I want, how else was I going to put it 😂
“lets” …
Me- “Hun I’m going to go see my gfs tonight ok”
Him” “okay”
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