Crazy bd fam issue

Ok yaw so, I’ve been going thru it w my bd family (specifically mom & sister) bc they just to weird sometimes! They always talking about “we wanna see the baby.. tell the baby to FT us” to my BD but WTF effort are yall putting in & how he gonna call yall when he’s not even 1 yet. They never ask how im doing, never hmu to see him but always my BD. He’s already told them they need to contact me since im the one who’s always with him since he be working. But NO. They still don’t even reach out. Is it THEIR place to establish that relationship even when I’ve already tried but they keep being ignorant to the fact? I’m his MOTHER & you can’t have THAT close of a relationship with him without even trying to make a connection with me. Hes too young, not 8 years old smh. This really pisses me off; I need words of encouragement or advice

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yes!! You get it

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Did something happen for them not to like you?

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nothing except be myself. He’s the only & baby boy so it’s giving JEALOUS. I’ve bought Christmas gifts for them every year except this most recent Christmas & still have never got anything. The mom didn’t even talk to me at my baby shower & his sister came late asf then disappeared mins later & never came back

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omgggg, so how does your man feel about this? Does he try to force a relationship or he’s sees their BS?

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Girl fuck them ppl! Being with the only boy can be a nightmare! If they can’t come to terms with they need to contact you to talk to the baby then they won’t talk to him

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girl that’s facts!🗣️🗣️

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I went through the same thing with my son dad family.

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