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I am 23 weeks pregnant and I do not feel attracted to my husband at all, to the point that I do not want him to touch me at all. Does anyone ever feel like that?

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Hormones do crazy things, some people get stupid horny, some people find even the thought of touch disgusting. When i was pregnant i didnt want to be touched by my partner but everything was back to normal when baby was born 😊

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That’s exactly how I feel right now, and it’s not like me at all. Feel like I’ll be hurting his feelings by saying that I don’t want him near me at all.

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I’m the complete opposite! And he thinks I’m too pregnant and isn’t into it at all and it’s horrible. Pregnancy is so weird and hormones suck 😭

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Pregnancy is a very hard thing to go through, it doesnt just change us physically. Just have to remember to give yourself a break whilst you go through this. Communication is key, talk to him and let him to understand what is going on and its not personal its just the pregnancy and work through it together 😊 just take it day by day x

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Yes I feel the same & I feel so bad for my partner too :/

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I was like this with my boyfriend. In the beginning he just absolutely annoyed me, all he had to do was just breathe. It eventually wore off x

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I think this is very good advice, I will talk to him. It’s a horrible way to feel.

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it’s nice to know I’m not the only one.

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how many weeks are you now?

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I gave birth to my little in September x

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I was like this with my first pregnancy and for the 1st few months postpartum. I couldn't stand him. I thought I hated him. I slept in a different room with the baby for the 1st 3 months. Finally I started feeling more like myself and everything started getting better. It wasn't him it was me. Bless him for putting up with me..
Just keep in mind it may just be your hormones not himā¤ļø

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I was the same as you I wanted to do it allll the time thankfully my husband was up for it too,but with my first omg don’t touch me don’t come near me don’t even talk to me 🤪

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When I was pregnant…the entire pregnancy I was like this! Just the thought of sex was not happening!! Sorry but guys need to understand your body is going through a lot! My son is 3 weeks today, hormones take a while to settle back to normal…but I feel like I’m getting back to myself

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