Both Subs

My partner and I have started exploring. For Christmas he got me some cuffs and nipple clamps. I also went out and bought with him a dildo, vibrator and butt plug. We've been having fun with these but I think I've come to realize we're both subs. I'm just not sure how to go about this. I feel like this should be a take turns kinda thing but I dont even know where to start to be Dom. I know he likes when I tell him what to do but I'm so shy about it. I think I have a "good girl" kink (just learned what it is so have to explore that) but like I said he's sub too so I'm not sure how to make these work for both of us either. Could I ask for some input or advice 😅

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What’s a sub..? This all sounds like fun. Good for both of you

@Denise a submissive, is someone who gives some or all control to their dominant. I enjoy being told what to do or having him "use" me. By allowing him to do whatever he wants creates another level of pleasure. Of course each relationship is different in how each one works

I say reach out together to a Dom sub club and talk to a real Dom to help figure out how to go about it probably. I'm a sub myself and my husband wasnt when I shared that side of myself we found he was a switch and talk to a local club on how we should navigate this new part of are relationship. And the praise kink GIRLLLLLL my biggest turn on was when my hubby calls me his good girl while I'm going down on him or riding and he is praising me for taking him so well biggest O's ever when he does that.

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