I need help šŸ™ƒ

So me and my husband had a talk….
I ask him if I stink down there😬
He said no but only when we have sex.
I agree! When we have sex and our juices does has a smell to it. I told him it might be his cum.

After intercourse when his sperm leak out and when I clean it it give me a strong smell.

Has that happpened before ??

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Is this something new, since it's your husband like is this smell new between yall?? Maybe yall diet changed. Is it that type of smell or odor ?? Go get checked out ME if I got to many questions I'm heading to the Dr they there for this reason give em something to do.

Even though yall married yall both can and should go. Our body changes bring it up to him with health concerns

I've experienced smells yes but stinky smell I can't recall.

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It could be BV I had that before and it is hard to get rid of 😩

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I would go to the doctor and get tested. could be BV, or an STI. you just never know

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Are you itchy in anyway?

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Could be a yeast infection , bv sometimes the sperm to it depends ! Like me since I have extra weight on me since my c-section my incision smells still when me and him do it and I always thought it was my vagina too Lmao but it wasn’t !

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Haha I know what your saying !! When we have sex too it’s like a different smell . It goes away tho after I clean up and shower and I know it’s not bv or any infection .

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Could be his diet.

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Yes someone’s diet can make there thing smell šŸ˜‚

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Does your husband eat a lot of junk food?

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Some women are slightly allergic/sensitive to cum and that can create a weird smell during sex.
Although some guys cum smells gross, make him eat more fruit

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Nothing to do with infections peoplešŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø. It’s your PH balance going off the scale because it’s been interfered with. Like someone else said your vajayjay and his P are probably incompatible sensitivity/allergy wise. This shouldn’t alarm you though it’s normal. Just eat more fruit both of you (pineapple is good). Make sure you pee after s3x and shower gets rid of itšŸ™‚

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^what she said, incompatible PH!

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Nope not itchy I do be checking myself in planned parenthood as for my husband hasn’t been to a doctor since a teen

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yeah that what we said too.

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yes a lot 😭

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Sounds like it’s knocking your PH balance out of whack. Totally normal. Try taking a women’s probiotic daily! It’s for vaginal health & it totally helps.

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So then you should be all set it’s probably his diet throwing your ph off our areas are extra sensitive !

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