Return to work notice

When I took my maternity leave, I gave my expected return to work date as April 1, 2024. How soon should I get in touch with my employer? My mom seemed surprised I hadn't reached out yet but I thought I could touch base 4 or 6 weeks before to confirm. Any advice?

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3 weeks before resumption

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I'd suggest if you're sticking with the date, a month before is good. If you want to change your return date, I'd touch base sooner rather than later just to let them know and make sure everything is cool

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I suggest a month before but I also think it’s dependent on the type of work you’re doing.

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I came back once a month and visited with my lo before I came back so we talked all the time and they said whenever I wanted to I could

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Legally you have to give 4 weeks notice before returning to work after mat leave

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Different employers have different policies. It depends on your position. Did you have to train a replacement, were they hired for a certain amount of time? Are you intending on going back Apr 1 or are you changing the date? If I was changing the date, I would reach out earlier. If I wasn't sure of my employer's policy, I would reach out earlier. If I knew my employers policy was 1 months notice and was sticking with my original return date then I would reach out a bit before the month's notice.

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in alberta 4 weeks are required. you should be able to find it on the government website for your province

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