Partner against my bump- should I be concerned?
Hi all,
My partner and I had some naughty time today as we’ve been nervous about it since I got pregnant. However because I was on a side position he decided to move across my body and his chest was basically resting on my chest and my bump.
He was there for like 10 mins or so. I’m 25 +1 weeks today and scared- will this affect the baby at all? When I asked him he didn’t think it was too hard?
He’s just got golden retriever energy and doesn’t know his own strength. For example, when we first started going out he lied down accidentally on my left hand. Because it was his whole body my hand has never been the same since and randomly spasms maybe nerve damage.
Any advice?
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Did it feel painful?
My hubby sometimes will hug me too tight and it will.squidge my bump but if it's too tight I always feel it and stop him. Or baby gets ratty and kicks.
If not I think you were probably fine.
Fyi though side lying positionings or doggy are quite good the more.... Encumbered you get 😉
Unfortunately for me I've been too swollen down there recently to take any sort of advantage but last pregnancy I think we only stopped about 30 weeks
No you'll be fine with resting.. my daughter (4yo) sometimes bounces on my stomach when sitting on my knee.
I also sleep on my stomach most nights and I'm plus size so littlen probably get squashed 🤣 our body's are made to take some impact and baby is very protected 🤭
it didn’t feel painful just slightly uncomfortable, like “get off” sort of thing. The baby didn’t kick. And he’s been kicking since so I’m guessing I’m alright. My partner just gets over enthusiastic sometimes 🤣🤣🤣. Can’t blame him since I’ve been pregnant I haven’t wanted to do anything bless him.
I used to like sleeping on my stomach too before I was pregnant so I completely get that. Haha aww bless her!! My cat is quite similar tbh- uses me as a launch pad on and off the bed 🤣. X
the only position i find comfortable is missionary , i find im to swollen down there to enjoy anything else as it feels like there is no space inside me 🤣🤣 My partner just needs to adjust how much he lays on my tummy and has to put a bit more work into it and keep himself up with his arms instead of resting on me
You're absolutely fine. As an example, some women still sleep on their belly at that stage. Doctors say that it's not dangerous for the baby, just uncomfortable to you, so 10 minutes of your partner on you is nothing, you will soon feel his little kicks again and realise that there is nothing to be worried about:)
how do you find missionary whilst pregnant? My partner is too scared at the moment to try anything x
it’s the only thing that’s comfortable for me . It’s a little harder for my partner as he needs to put more pressure on his arms then on me but its still great . We have tried on my side but it’s just so uncomfortable for some reason
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