Long Venting Story:
Okay so my last baby was born at the beginning of 2023 and last summer I found out that my spouse had gone away on a weekend getaway with some woman. He came home and said he felt guilty and then I couldn’t talk I was in shock. Later when I got mad and angry he said I was over reacting blah blah blah. I found out later that he has been talking to her since the summer of 2022 when I was big and pregnant. I also found out that they would make plans he would cancel then make plans again.
I told him we are done for ever. Cheating isn’t something I take lightly and especially with the person he did it with also, he refuses to also remove her from his life.
Anyways this momma is struggling so hard because I think about it all the time and I don’t want to think about it or have it consume me anymore it’s been 5 months since it happened as well. Anyways he won’t help with the kids or financially, our toddler was sick and asked him to take to the doctor to be seen and he refused saying no the child’s fine; child has croup and isn’t fine.
UGH just needing to vent and let this out and maybe there is some momma that has some advice or when through this before.
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I am so sorry you are going through this. If you guys are separated, you can get a lawyer to make a separation agreement. It will lay out custody, visitation as well as child/spousal support.
Also you should look for someone to talk to about all this. It's a lot to deal with. 🫶

So sorry you’re going through this. Your kids want a mom who’s happy and respected. Not only did you do the right thing for yourself, you did the right thing by your kids too - they deserve to see you happy 🤍