Struggling Momma

Long Venting Story:

Okay so my last baby was born at the beginning of 2023 and last summer I found out that my spouse had gone away on a weekend getaway with some woman. He came home and said he felt guilty and then I couldn’t talk I was in shock. Later when I got mad and angry he said I was over reacting blah blah blah. I found out later that he has been talking to her since the summer of 2022 when I was big and pregnant. I also found out that they would make plans he would cancel then make plans again.
I told him we are done for ever. Cheating isn’t something I take lightly and especially with the person he did it with also, he refuses to also remove her from his life.
Anyways this momma is struggling so hard because I think about it all the time and I don’t want to think about it or have it consume me anymore it’s been 5 months since it happened as well. Anyways he won’t help with the kids or financially, our toddler was sick and asked him to take to the doctor to be seen and he refused saying no the child’s fine; child has croup and isn’t fine.
UGH just needing to vent and let this out and maybe there is some momma that has some advice or when through this before.

Read more on Peanut

The views expressed in community are solely the opinions of participants, and do not reflect those of Peanut.

Learn more about our guidelines.
Add a comment
Avatar

I am so sorry you are going through this. If you guys are separated, you can get a lawyer to make a separation agreement. It will lay out custody, visitation as well as child/spousal support.

Also you should look for someone to talk to about all this. It's a lot to deal with. 🫶

Avatar

So sorry you’re going through this. Your kids want a mom who’s happy and respected. Not only did you do the right thing for yourself, you did the right thing by your kids too - they deserve to see you happy 🤍

Read more on Peanut

Trending

in our community

Opinions

Is it normal to crave my partners 🍆 in me but not sexually

Avatar

4

16

My village is missing

This is a late night vent session obviously but l make it short. My boyfriend and I went to a basketball game in Orlando. His sister was babysitting our son. We come back tonight for her to say he slept for 6 hours and just woke up. Now what type of shit is that. I’ve been feeling lately like no one cares for me or helps out in the way I need them to. People want to see you smile but don’t try to find the cause when you’re not. I’m an only child and my mom lives far. I feel very alone even with the dad involved. I feel alone and like I’m doing it all. I can’t even imagine having another kid which I want but this life here is tough

Avatar

3

Sex life is 🫠

Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

Avatar

6

Whyyy?

I get horny when my man isn’t around but when he’s around and in the mood I’m not. This last Thursday he made me squirt a lot for by birthday. We only get intimate like 2 times a month.

Avatar

3

Friend 🥺

Let’s skip to the good part and just be besties? Text, call, ft.. play dates or just simply hang out. Just want a genuine mommy friend. I’m in NW Indiana but we can be long distance besties tooooo.

Avatar

3

9

Question about ejaculation

I tell my partner to wear a condom not only for protection but also so that there's no mess to clean up when I get up to use the toilet. Is this normal?
I ask because I now have the contraceptive pill but I still want him to wear a condom.

Avatar

5

Read more on Peanut