Hey. Im currently 25+2 and my sex drive is still pretty high.
We’ve been together with my partner for nearly 10 years and our sex life was always great, however since we hit the second trimester and my bump started to be more visible / larger he doesnt want to do it anymore as he is worried that he will hurt the baby.
Even tho we read a lot about it and we know that its safe to do it, he’s still not in the mood & worried which I’m trying to empathise with but it’s really difficult as our sex life seems to be not existing anymore.
Does anyone else has the same with their partner?
I always read posts and comments about how it is usually the women who dont want to or can’t do it and it seems weird that it is the other way around for us.
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You’ve gotta be patient with him the same way you’d want him to be patient with you. I would suggest offering some oral sex, touching, kissing etc. in the meantime! It could help him get more comfortable and satisfy your needs. Good luck!!! Xx
Thank you xx

My partner is a bit simular he explained that now he can see the bump he concentrates more on the fact he might hurt baby so we tried 🐶 and he said much better as he can't see bump, maybe give that a try (I have high sex drive too so was willing to try anything) 🤣🤣