5 month old sleeping

Here lately my son has been staying awake 6-8 hrs PRIOR to going to bed for the night (still wakes every 2-3 hours to nurse at night and always has). He fights sleep like crazy regardless if I try to out him down early or late. I read somewhere that putting them down for the night after 8 pm leads to horrible sleep at night however anytime I’ve put him down for the night around 8pm or before then, he wakes up at 2-3 AM FOR THE DAY😩. Any advice?!

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My babies bed time is around 9-10pm and she wakes up 8-9am

My little boy is also 5 months and for the past 3ish weeks he's been going to bed at around 11 cause that's the only time he'll happily settle and sleep all night then he gets up at 10ish the next morning for a bottle xx

I follow his lead and don’t force schedules with specific times… he usually wakes up between 7-8 am and will stay awake for 2 ish hours and eat and then he will take a nap for 2 hours then eat and be awake for 2 hrs and it’s that ‘schedule’ recurring thru the day, during wake windows he plays etc.
since I am a nanny and take him with me to work, he doesn’t have set times and never has, it just works better for us because honestly I try to have set times for bedtime like usually if he naps later afternoon I always make sure he’s up by 5 to try to get ready for bed 7-8 pm but he neverrrrr goes to bed til like 10-11 pm. I even tried letting him go to bed early cause he was super tired and fell asleep quick around 6:45-7 the other day, and he woke up WIDE awake at 1:30 am and played for 3 hrs…. Like each day as far as sleep goes is never consistent which yes if I had a schedule… but working in daycare a year ago showed me that so many babies cannot handle specific times

I must just have a different type of baby then cause he goes to bed 10-11 pm and wakes up 6-7am usually but 8 if I’m lucky.

10?? Dang😅

Our baby goes down at 9pm, dreamfeed bottle at 10pm and then sleeps usually til at least 6am to eat and back to bed til about 9am. He gets about 11hrs total at night.

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Just out of curiosity, why do parents love zipper onesies?

Don’t get me wrong, I tried zipper ones it’s easy to zip in and out when putting it on the first time and taking it out, but I find it difficult when changing diapers especially when baby is asleep.

I prefer those kimono style buttons where it’s easy to button or too down button with crotch snaps.

Is everyone thinking the same or different? Lol

At this point I’m not enjoying motherhood

My 22 month old is horrendous at the moment🫣 biting, hitting, pushing, pulling and shoving not only adults but children he also wants what other children have and will just snatch it away from them.

We repeat ‘nice hands’ ‘be gentle’ ‘let’s share’ etc

But how do I make him understand what he’s doing isn’t very nice? At the end of the day I feel like I’ve just been saying his name all day and nothing else.

What can I do?

This might rattle some people

Ok, this might get a bit long, and a bit bumpy, so get comfy and buckle up.

So about a week or 2 ago, there was a post on here regarding sleepovers. Not letting their child go to them as you can't trust who'll be at the house etc.

Now, given recent incidents in nurseries and schools, plus my own experience back in the 90s, I am more concerned about sending my child to nursery and later school than I am to a friend's house for a sleep over.

The other day a man was jailed for abusing children at the nursery he worked at. A woman has been arrested for sleeping with an underage boy and then getting pregnant by a different underage boy while on bail for the first offence.

Young girls and boys get sexually harassed and bullied when at school, not all of them. But more than you think. And not just by other kids, but by adults who we as parents are trusting to look after our kids.

A sleepover, is a more controlled environment, with only a handful of people coming into contact with your child. A school, a club etc there can be 100s of people coming into contact with your child.

I was targeted at 7 years old by the owner of a prominent private school. Thankfully, I wasn't SA'd. In year 5 of primary school, I started to develop early, I was harassed by the boys and teachers made remarks about how my uniform didn't fit right, always "adjusting it" around my chest and legs.

Years 7-9 of secondary school were hell. But it was all under the guise of "we're just messing around". A teacher twanging my exposed bra strap (none uniform day) is not "messing around".

Boys pinning me down trying to rip open my shirt to see my breasts.

I fear for my daughter. I hope she takes after my father's family, flat chested.

We need to educate all our children, what is acceptable behaviour. And to come to us, as their parents should ANYTHING happen.

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My baby has had a dummy since about 2 weeks old (now 5 months) and over the course of the last month we weaned her off it during the day only for naps and night (which was fine) and then 5 days took it completely away during the day.

The first day no dummy was fine, the second bit rougher. But now it feels impossible she just moans and cries all the time it takes ages for her to go down to sleep (she’s always been an amazing sleeper)

I thought it was meant to get better as time went on not worse. I’m at my wits end I dunno what to do.

Currently typing this as she screams uncontrollably in the car and I cry with her cos I can’t do anything.

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As a mum who breastfed for 3 years, I think formula feeding seems 100x harder and more demanding. I give those mamas all the credit because I could not keep up with that faff haha. I truly don’t understand why people say breastfeeding is more effort, other than the fact that no one else can do it. But personally I’d take that over endless bottle prep & cleaning.