How do I stop thinking the worst of people?

I find myself emotionally upset at work about so many things and I noticed I’m immediately thinking the worst of certain people. I don’t like this way of thinking and I feel like I can’t talk about anything with my boss. I only slept like 2 hours last night. I don’t know what tools to use to get through this.

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I totally understand you here. I get like this at times. I find outside avenues to deal with any issues. Did you have any of these issues before the baby? The reason why I asked is due to my hormones still not “back to normal” just yet.

I did but not as much. It’s been really stressful being back at work and I like called my eyes out at work today in the bathroom

Oh no!! I get it. Sometimes you just have to do just that and go back to work. Your body is attempting to go back before the baby. Sleeppp you have to slide in an hour of sleep anytime you can. I know easier said than done. I struggle with that as a working mom myself. What has helped me even though I may have help is not assuming I have go to everything all at once. I had that problem as far as trying to cook for my family, keeping the house clean and family time. It left me noo time so sometime I let some of these things just be for a while . That eases my stress sometimes. I’m here if you just want to scream or talk. I’m feeling the same way to do now. I just try to step away and think what’s really triggering me.

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So std rates are at an all time high as we all know. Do you think the mindset that body count doesn’t matter has contributed to the significant increase of STDs and HIV?

Secondly if someone says that body count doesn’t matter do you believe they are less likely to practice safe sex compared to people who believe in more traditional values?

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