Husband started taking off his ring

He works as a gas tech so he gets super dirty with gas and he uses that as a excuse on why he takes it off but idk… and yesterday he “misplaced” it here at home which is so weird??? Bc why would he take it off lol

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Get him a rubber ring from amazon

Tell him it makes you insecure. Maybe offer to see if he will wear it on a necklace?

Get a spy camera😂

Definitely agree with the rubber ring comment! No excuse there to take it off 🤷🏻‍♀️

There are many reasons why someone would take off their ring. You aren’t supposed to wear it to sleep, your fingers could swell at night which happens to a lot of people from being sedentary or warm and it could cut off your circulation. You also aren’t supposed to wear it while doing manual labor due to the risk of something called degloving, which I’ll leave you to look up on your own as it’s gross. My husband frequently doesn’t wear his ring as he doesn’t like the feel of it and I don’t wear mine while pregnant because it doesn’t fit right now. I think being worried about whether or not your partner wears a ring is usually of a symptom of bigger problems. Why is it you feel suspicious just because he did not wear it?

yes I definitely ordered a pack of 4 😂I told him because he always has a excuse to take it off or that it was misplaced then he can just put another on till he finds the other

I did he told me “here we go again”

yup agree!!

Hmm sis

I agree with getting him another ring. Silicon. We like Enso rings. My husband has a very physical job so he wears one to protect his finger from any unfortunate accidents.

My husband has a tattoo on his ring finger. He also has a ring that he only wears for special occasions. I wear my rings all the time.

My husband old job was very dirty. And had lost a mood ring I got him when we first started dating at his job. So when we got married he got a rubber ring so his wedding band wouldn’t get lost or dirty.

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