Fiance leaving me with both of us sick

So 2 months ago my fiance and I had plans to go to a concert in Arizona for a weekend away just us two but now my husband and I and our 4 month old are sick with Covid and my fiance is planning on still going this weekend and you would think in his mind he’s like “oh my son and family is sick I gotta stay back!” But no in his mind he’s like spent all this money on the tickets and the place to stay that he is still gonna go without me. My parents were gonna take care of him while we were gone but now they are getting Covid so I gotta stay back and take care of him. I just don’t know what to say so he doesn’t go.

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So your husband has covid and wants to go to a concert anyway? What is actually wrong with him this is why covid got so bad in the first place 🤦🏻‍♀️

The tickets are wrist band can I still sell them on stub hub?

yea I know right and I told him that the concert is on Friday there’s no way I’ll feel by then and knowing my baby is sick I just can’t go. All he is thinking about is the money he lost and can’t get back

Have another talk with him about selling the tickets and canceling the accommodations. If he won't even try then u have all right to get upset he needs to realize he's been exposed to covid it's not smart to go anywhere

If it’s innings fest, they should be able to refund him for having Covid. You can also resell the tickets on Ticketmaster.

yea it is innings fest. He said when he bought them they can be refunded but that could be bullshit

I’m pretty sure Covid is an exception. I have tickets too and I know I saw that cancellation was 24 hours priors to event for refunds.

I contacted someone from their ticket help area and they said that the tickets are final sale and can’t be refunded so I don’t know what I’m gonna do. Do you know anyone who would want to buy them off of us and we overnight ship them to you?

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