I want to say something a long the lines of “let’s talk about our sex life” lol then just go into it by saying we need to be more affectionate and not just the role of mum and dad.
I don’t want us to get too comfortable of not having sex I just don’t know how to talk about it
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We talk every single week about sex, what we can change where else we can do that we haven’t, or hypothetical questions …. If you’ve been w him long enough you should be comfortable enough to discuss it and bring things up w no problem. Don’t overthink it, and just bring it up. As soon as he slacks with his physical touch (coz that’s my love language and it doesn’t come naturally to him) I just remind him again. He really tries to keep up 😂 but that’s because I make my needs known, I’m very vocal about what I want and when I want it etc. Open up, initiate, or talk. I just initiate but he’s never rejected me and so that’s why I always have the confidence TO initiate (reading some posts on here I learnt not all men are like him though). So just find a good time to bring it up, or initiate if you know he will reciprocate xx

Can you send him a cute/sexy selfie and text something flirty so he knows he’s “getting it” tonight?

You just do it. Whenever my husband and I talk about it it’s usually easier the next day after us having sex. Because it’s fresh in the mind. And I’ll just go sooo last night was fun and then go into what I want to say. If you aren’t having sex often enough to choose one of those times just pick a time that yall are both home and talk about it. And maybe even a text throughout the day that says you’d like to talk about it when he gets home it something like that.