Timeouts

My son, who is two years old has a therapist that comes and plays with him every Tuesday and today we were talking about the behavior of him like hitting, throwing and screaming at us and she told us that we should start doing timeouts but I wanna know how do you guys do timeout you guys have like a chair or a corner?

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My parents are both therapists - father is a child psychologist, and I was a special Ed teacher.

Toddlers that age often use negative physical behaviors when they don’t have the language or tools to express their emotions or needs.

Timeouts, when used appropriately, are a very effective tool. It is supposed to be time to cool down, remove the child from a stressful situation to de-escalate, and reflect. With a child that young, it’s best to do more of a “guided” timeout since they can’t reflect on their own. Remove them from the physical space where the negative behaviors are happening, give them a chance to cool off. Then, if they have to tools to - talk about what happened and what they could have done instead. Keep in mind that a child that age does not have the language and emotional intelligence to fully dive into a discussion, and to keep any talk you have very brief.

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If you create a space, I’d think about it more in a calming sense than punishment. Instead of a chair in the corner, I’d carve out a space with a few things (not toys) that your toddler likes… bean bag, some sensory things (you could bring these with you when you’re on the go and need to calm)

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