Second ectopic!

Guys I am
Literally shattered, I feel like my whole world has come crashing down around me, I had a ruptured ectopic pregnancy in September last year which I had to have removed as well as my right fallopian tube. It broke me but fast forward my husband and I decided to start trying again, I found out I was pregnant and was over the mean, I contacted the early pregnancy unit straight away and I've been going back and foward to have my hcg levels checked they were very low and only increasing slightly, it finally went up to 500 where they offered me a scan, they scanned me and I saw that same look on her face, I was told to wait to speak to a doctor and low and behold the doctor told me it was another ectopic this time to the left! I was devastated he told me it was lucky we caught it soon as it was still small and could be treated with the injection. I had the injection on Sunday but my mind has been spinning since then I'm so scared that it will still rupture. Has this happened to anyone else ? More then one ectopic, if so how did you deal with it? Did you go on to have a successful pregnancy ? I'm so down right now I need something positive to hold on too 🥲

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Hi I didn’t want to read and run when I see this post pop up in my notifications. This sounds exactly the same as my story! I too have suffered 2 ectopic resulting in one losing a fallopian tube & the other just sewn back. My two ectopics were back to back on the same date!

I am hear to tell you, you are not alone! My two ectopics were in 2020 & 2021.

I have fallen pregnant twice since then but unfortunately suffered miscarriages.

Please don’t lose faith & remember this too shall pass xxx

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Hi you are so beautiful thank you for your kind words I will pray for your good news soon too 💕

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I will pray for you too aisha. Please stay strong 🫶xx

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Sending you lots of love and praying for you 🙏🏼I’m so sorry. I had an ectopic in December x

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I’m so sorry for your loss!
I have had any right tube removed due to ruptured eptopic!
I then had a chemical pregnancy (super early)
Fast forward a few months i then had a successful pregnancy with my healthy baby girl who is now 8 months!
I have no suffered with a heteropic pregnancy (I can’t remember the spelling sorry) so basically I felt I had the same pain as my first eptopic so went for early scans and got sent straight for emergency surgery however the pregnancy was not in my tube luckily this time but was in a different location still being eptopic but I also had a viable pregnancy at the same time in the correct place … so twins but one sadly couldn’t survive and is super super rare! I’m currently now 16 weeks pregnancy and so far so good!
Hope this helps you for hope! Just make sure if you do try again you get seen and monitored as early as possible especially with 1 tube left!
Have you considered freezing some eggs? If your in the uk I think the nhs do it for free

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thanks for sharing 💕 wishing your pregnancy well x

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