Have you ever… ?

Been out somewhere in public with your son and an older/or another female sees your child looking at them and smile , and the only response that comes out their mouth is “Are You Flirting with me ?” Or “You little flirt, with your cute self !” 🥴🥴

Ehh, I’ll be honest, I’m speechless every time I hear this and really can’t understand how as a grown adult, Woman nonetheless, allow your self to say it. Partial judgement given, because if a man said something like that to a little girl, then all hell breaks loose.

If you’ve encountered this before, how do yall respond the situation?

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I think it’s totally gross and very weird that adults are sexualising babies, absolutely strange. Even when people say to my little boy ‘oh you’ll be breaking hearts when you’re older’, like that is so weird to say to a baby. People need to stop this shit.

I think it’s weird to ask a baby anything about flirting. Like of course they’re not. They smile at everything when possible.

That's weird. It's different if it's a relative maybe, like my sisters calling him a charmer/ladies man kind of thing, but as a random interaction on the street I think it's inappropriate 🤔

It's wrong! A girl in Costa used to do this kind of stuff to my then 9 and 7 year old boys, she used to stick her tongue out at them and it was pierced and she blew kisses at them when they left and stuff... I actually left it up to their dad to speak with her as I was fuming as this was over the space of months and I would only occasionally go... and its something my partner used to do with them, take them for a babychino... he told her it was inappropriate to be doing that to the children and not to do it again, she acted like she didn't understand at first and then he gave her a speech on why it's inappropriate and she seemed to get it, she ended up leaving within the next month. The reason I didn't say anything is because I was assessing the situation and it's somewhere they went a lot, once I seen her do it twice something had to be said.

I’m annoyed that people actually think comments like that are okay but imagine if a grown ass man said that to a little girl. It’d be a completely different story

I'd say ew and wouldn't even be able to control the stank look on my face bc it is very gross and inappropriate

Its weird but it wouldn't ruin my day

This post makes me laugh so hard. Y'all are the ones sexualizing everything and that's gross.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@Heather the people that are bothered by it are the ones sexualizing but not the random people calling toddlers their boyfriend and flirts aren't the ones sexualizing? You need to do some opening up and deep realization because you're extremely off and not paying attention to how others act around ya kid is dangerous af

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you making a big deal out of a comment that had been around for DECADES is funny af to me. Lmfao it's only sexual if you make it sexual.
#badmom
I call my son who is 15 months a flirt all the time. He blows kisses at little girls and old ladies....

@Heather it's definitely not only sexual if the party it's happening to makes it. The person made a sexual comment. You must be the type of person to talk like that to little kids. You should have learned as a child that that is completely inappropriate and gross. Grow up. Flirting with kids isn't the only interaction you can think of with them, be smarter than that.

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