Missing the baby stage

I feel so conflicted!
I was having a horrid time with my LO he would never sleep on his own and would wake up 2 ish times a night. So I set out to sleep train him, and he took right to it. He's beyond independent sleeper now . He doesn't care to snuggle to sleep and doesn't want to be held before bedtime now!
I feel like I lost my baby. It might be my last child, and I'm just feeling so conflicted if I made the wrong xhoice to sleep train him :(
Has anyone gone through this???
Please tell me im not alone!

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I haven't gone through this, but I know I would feel exactly the same way if I did! It's hard when you realize "I won't have another baby to xyz"!

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