I feel like a terrible mother

I am 5 weeks pregnant with my second and my anger is through the roof. I feel like I am snapping and screaming at my 22 month too much. My hormones are killing me and I feel like I am a horrible mother. I can’t control it and I feel terrible. Has anyone else gone through this??

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This is so common. It's alot to deal with! If you're not the morning sickness type, have a snack. If you've been sitting, start walking around. Try putting something cool on your face, or popping outside for a deep breath of fresh air. Try giving your husband (or your child if they ⁹are interested) a loooooong popsnugly hug. Give your physical problem (the hormones) a physical solution. Also, feel free to use earplugs. Even if you just use one at a time, it can really help with feeling overstimulated by your LOUD toddler.

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