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My husband has just told me that he slept with a work colleague back in January on a work trip. I feel numb I don’t know what to do. Why am I so numb?

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It'll be the shock, that's why you're feeling numb.
From personal experience once they've done it once, they'll do it again unfortunately

Has he hurt you before? From experience when I’ve been hurt and let down by someone before eventually I get to a point where I just feel numb, as my body’s way of trying to protect me.
I hope you’re okay and get through this ❤️

I’m so sorry❤️ the numbness is definitely the shock. You have to give yourself a little time to think and process and calm down and then you need to have a long deep conversation and come to agreements/make arrangements and work through everything together whether you decide to stay and move past it or separate. Take care of yourself, whatever decision you make is the right decision for you, don’t doubt yourself.

Once a cheater always a cheater.
Sorry that you are in this situation. Please don’t forget your worth.
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Hey mamas! I’m back on here again hoping to find good friendships on here ! I didn’t really have any luck last time . I’m giving this another try again ! I’m 26 with two little girls I have a 4 year old and 8 months old and I am stay at home mom rn . I’m hoping to find friends who understand my situation and be able to talk everyday when they can . And I’ll be getting married in July .

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Im a little desperate already . Im not a huge fan on blowjobs but I’m doing it because I know he likes it . If he wants it in a car, during work meeting , on the balcony, on the beach everywhere I’m okay to do that . However, I’m not getting anything in return. I mean the last time he went down was more than 1.5 years ago . Okay, I was pregnant maybe he did not feel like doing it while I had a belly as he told me . , but I’m not pregnant already for awhile and I’m always telling him that I want him to go down and he is always having an excuse like “tomorrow “ etc . At the beginning it was funny and I was like okayyy but now it’s not as I’m not enjoying our sex in general . Like the process itself does not make me finish . As I’m breastfeeding and super dry down there and I’m always telling him to put lubricant as it’s hurting me . And sometimes it feels like I am begging for that as he is more comfortable without it , but damn IM NOT OKAY without it . So basically I do not remember when was the last time I have finished during sex . I understand that now with a baby it’s hard to fully enjoy it and have enough time for everything. But still . Just kiss me and put your dick inside me does not seems sexy . To be honest I understand why in marriage women does not want to have sex . Like I feel like it’s already work that I have to do not a pleasure. I’ve been telling him that but as I can see no changes applied 🫠

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