My partners bm called him last night on her birthday night that her boyfriend arranged. She has 2 kids with her new man and I have a baby with my partner. She was saying that she cares for him and that he will always have a special place in her heart and that she is sorry she couldn’t give you what she can( a son). Her boyfriend is furious and I feel a bit weird what is your take on it is she over him completely as it never seems it.
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She’s not over him. I’m having the same problem smh only reason my husband’s bm s/o has a problem with him is because she not over him so she use the kid to play mind games and her s/o taunts him about his kid. If you’re religious pray about it and don’t let her get under your skin. Tough being the bigger person in that situation but that’s all you can do. Make sure your s/o set some boundaries

She’s not over him! My husband and his ex has 3 kids, and we have 2 together and he adopted my other 4 kiddos. She got drunk and told me she has his last name and when he said no. And he said no the fuck you aren’t, and she literally said yes I am I have you’re kids… like what that’s not how that works … now we don’t allow her over or anything … we are both so uncomfortable around her now.