Baby won’t settle for dad at night

For context baby is almost 7 months, EBF + 2 meals a day.
During the day he’ll go down for naps so easily for me, my husband, or if my family are with him while I’m out he will snooze for them. Contact nap, or go down in his cot. He’s a pretty easygoing baby on the whole.

At night he’ll go down to sleep for 3-4 hours at first then wake every 2 hours. If his dad picks him up he will scream as though he is terrified until he brings him to me, where I usually nurse him back to sleep.
Also sometimes safely co-sleep with him, while my husband goes into the other room.

I don’t mind this at all, as I’ve totally chosen the path of least resistance by nursing him to sleep, I also love that time and know it won’t last forever but I just wonder if anyone else is in the same boat/ if anything helped someone else to settle their baby.

Tonight I was really tired so my husband just tried to settle him and he was screaming so loudly 😔

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I haven’t had any alcohol since before I was pregnant. I’m co- sleeping my 9 month old and I am quite anxious to put her in any risk.

The weather is so nice and I really fancy a nice cold glass white wine on the terrace.

I know the advice is not to drink anything and co - sleep. But my baby is good at letting me know when she is unhappy.

But what is your thoughts?

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