I had a friend who I was really close to who I miss very much, we haven't spoken in around 2 years and part of me wants to reach out but don't know if I should. I was in a bad place mentally at the time, I came off all my medications and it turned me into a person I didn't recognise and I ended up pushing her away. I will admit there was toxicness on both ends and I've spent the last 2 years focusing on her bad behaviour to justify us not talking but the more I think about it the more I realise we were both immature at the time and we were both in a bad place, question is do I reach out? She seems in a much a much better place and would me messaging her be bad for her? I just miss my friend
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I wouldn't reach out. I had someone like this in my life and I realized that just isn't worth trying to fix it. She was my best friend and it was a very toxic family as well and even my therapist let it go so in my opinion I would just let it go and move on. You don't need toxic people in your life 💞

Honestly I would just let it go.. i know mentally you was in a bad place but when we let go of people like that, it’s usually for a reason and usually is for the better.. but it’s up to you and how you feel.. xx