Separation Anxiety.

Y’all my daughter has recently just left to go she her gma for the weekend. I came upstairs in my bedroom. Where me and my baby sleep everyday, play, fuss, cry, and everything in our bedroom. Cause we both are antisocial individuals. But momma needed a break this weekend. My little one left right and I thought my daughter would have separation anxiety or something. My room has never been so quiet. I sat down and I bust out crying. It’s only been 12hours since she left me. I have the separation anxiety. Not my daughter. I miss her so much already! Does anyone else experience this?

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Yes!!!! Even to be away from her for work is sooooo hard. I was so glad to hv found a daycare tht has live camera access so I can check up on her from time to time lol I miss her allll the time
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The first night my son spent the night at his grandma's my sister took me out. We went home early bc I wasn't having fun bc I missed him so much. I stayed up till 7am & threw up from crying so much😅. When I saw him a few hours later I cried & hugged him lol.

🤣🤣wow @ threw up. Awww

Yes 💗

Yes 😭😭 it’s only been 45 minutes and I’m already not looking forward to the weekend without him. But I have so much i need to get done and I didn’t make excuses why we can’t play ☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️ I’m already missing my broke bestie 😫😫

@Oge 🤣🤣🤣 girl I was a mess lol whole time he stayed up late, ate whatever & had a blast. I was like damn maybe I did a lil too much😅

You have to keep yourself busy if you are away from the kids to not think about them. I go out and baby is always at home w hubby the days I go out and because I’m eating, drinking, chatting, walking or singing or dancing w the girls, I don’t really have time to miss the baby until I drive home which I blast music up and just enjoy the music lol. Keep yourself busy!! Since you have a free weekend go get some self care done or ring a gf and get some drinks or something xx “Breaks” for me are out of the house and def not at home

Omg im so happy for you giving yourself that break and room to let it all out. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Its ok to miss them, or not 💆🏻‍♀️

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