I feel sad, these babies are growing so fast

It feels not so long ago we were talking about pregnancy and little babies arrival and sleepless nights with these little tiny babies at every hour of the night feeding.

I’ve never sleep trained my baby because I had a gut feeling that this might be my only baby and wanted to enjoy snuggling as much as I could. I thought I would rock him to sleep for a long time and he’d be ok with it being a momma boy. He now asks after bath, once he has his pyjamas on to be put in his bed and he just says “night night” and goes to sleep on his own.

Why is he so independent even though I didn’t teach him? Does anyone else feel the same? He also decided to stop breastfeeding at 11 months old, and I wasn’t ready, I had to express.

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Because dependence breeds independence ☺️ a lot sadly think it's the other way round!

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He is independent because he feels safe and secure because of the start you gave him, so be proud of yourself and of him and nurture those memories.

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