I have just graduated from 2 under 2 as a single mumma ( mine are now 2 &3 😮💨) Your routine sounds good and 8pm bedtime is not too bad tbh! What helps is to slot baby’s routine in to toddlers routine not the other way around, also in terms of organisation what helps is to prep everything for the next day so for eg put both their clothes out the night before, pack their bags night before and chuck them in the buggy (it’s just one less thing to worry about lol), also remember how resilient you are. You have just raised a 17 month old mumma so you can more than do it again you got this 💪🏽
My routine is not like it was with 1 but I'm trying. Both were having their nap together at around 11am if I was lucky and both asleep by 7pm if I was lucky. This didnt happen until my baby was around 3 months though. Now my 24 month old is refusing to nap so no routine again 🥲