Pregnancy

Anyone else just finding pregnancy like really hard? Feel so sad tonight, silly things like I just spent the weekend at my mums now I’m back home and I miss her so much 🤣 literally sat in tears lol. Feel so lonely cause no one understands my emotions, I’m hungry but hate all food, tired but there’s always shit that needs to be done.

Then I’m sad because I didn’t expect to feel like this. Just want my baby 🤣🥹

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thank you 🤍🥹 I’ve not felt any kicks yet, hopefully not too much longer. Comforting to know I’m not the only one xx

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Yep 🤣 pregnancy up until about 16 weeks was so horrible for me I just felt so ill and I. Couldn’t see anything good about it (apart from the actual baby) it got more manageable about 18 weeks and now I feel baby kick it makes me happier! But I do get more emotional, I’m always bloody tired and I just cried because I was doing housework and got too exhausted to finish lol, I never know what I want to eat or if I can stomach it, pregnancy acne smacked me in the face and I have no motivation to work and feel overwhelmed - so I booked a holiday for 2 weeks to make me feel better 🤣🤣

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Hi it’s been a bit hard for me. All I want is to sleep and hardly feel hungry ( at the end of my first trimester)

I was a very active and career oriented person and this is the first time in my life I felt I would have been happy unemployed. I don’t care how I look and I don’t wanna step out of my house.

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I’m struggling too! I’m so happy about baby but tbh, feel generally down most of the time. You’re not alone!

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Deffo feeling this. There’s just one thing after the other. I think people don’t like to complain as it something lots of people want, but every pregnancy is different as is our lives and what we have to tackle on top of pregnancy. I’ve really hated pregnancy thus far. I’m excited to meet my little one but I’m dreading another 5 months of hell. Taking small wins that I’m not as rough as I was first trimester. Just waiting to feel kicks now, and to find out gender. Give me other things to focus on. I’m so glad people are saying their appetite is all over still. Two nights I’ve not had dinner. But I can’t stomach it or the heartburn ain’t worth it (still grazing all day so not going hungry)

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this is me but I’m only 15 weeks 😅😅

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Aw girls I’m so sorry yous are feeling similar but it’s also nice to know I’m not alone and seems a somewhat normal feelings to have. We’ve got this 💖💖💖

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I completely relate to this xxxxx

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