Advice

So my husband is hypersexual and for the first 2 years of out relationship we had sex 4- 5 times a day and then i got pregnant with my first and my sex drive dropped a lottle but got pregnant again and now that we have 2 kids under 2 i only want it maybe once a week and hes still wanting it atleast once a day. I feel bad cutting it down so much so i usually give in and dont get me wrong it feels amazing but i cant cum. Idk if im too in my head or if its because i dont want it as much. I can ONLY come on top with a vibrator and sometimes we even need to put porn on unless he have like 20 minutes of foreplay firts but more ofyjen then not its just a quicky before one of the kids need me. I want to cum and do more than 1 position and without foreplay nothing happens anymore.

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Anyone else like savory (non traditional breakfast food) for breakfast? 😆

We had butternut squash risotto two nights ago and steak tacos last night - combined leftovers for breakfast were fire. Other than french toast with bacon my favorite breakfast is spaghetti!

Working vs SAHM

Trying to decide if I want to go back to work or become a SAHM. We went through infertility for 3 years and had our baby girl in February.
I’m supposed to go back in a month but cant decide if I’d rather stay home. We can do it financially.
I do like my job but it also stresses me out at times. I would ask to go back 3 days a week if I did go back (already asked just in case, awaiting response) so I’d have 3 days on, 4 days off.
This may be our only child since I’m 32 so I don’t want to miss out on these early months/years. We also have inquired at multiple daycares and haven’t been able to get her a spot.
Advice?

To those whose default setting is a positive mindset, so you find that you only attract good things?

I'm curious.

Also, if you're an innate positive person, were you always like that or did it take a lot of introspection/work to achieve a positive mindset?

My son's go to a special school where all the kids are disabled or ESL. One of my boys has two best friends who are there for ESL. I want to get them gifts because they will be graduating this year.

Would it be unfair for me to just get his besties gifts? I mention they are ESL because I don't have to worry about getting them gifts that are disability dependent like I would with all the other kids.

They speak French as a first language and moved here from Cameroon not sure if that matters. My boys dad speaks French too.

Teaching assistant (UK only please)

I have the opportunity to be a teaching assistant but I know it's very underpaid/ a lot of work stress and a heavy workload.

Shall I do it?

Serious question

If babydaddy disappeared, kick u out during pregnancy because u didn’t get an abortion knowing ur also high risk he puts u out at 5 months prego. Then says he wants the child to have his last name , he wants to be there at the birth ect… am I wrong for not allowing him in the child’s life. I would rather him just take me to court but he won’t even know what the baby look like because I’m not posting any pics or sending no pics or announcing his name