Serious question

Nope you aren’t in the wrong I had the same 😂 let him take you to court bet he doesn’t

Serious question….why would you even consider giving the child who you are growing inside your body and will birth, the name of someone who you are not married to, never will be, and treated you like shit? 🤔

Girl I would cut him off and get peace and then hit him w child support after the baby was born .

I don’t think you are wrong at all. He abandoned you and your baby.

Personally, if i were in your situation , i wouldn’t want my child to have his last name.

Make sure to look into the laws in your state though, if he is not present at the hospital, i am not sure if he can be listed on the birth certificate. Which then leads to having to get a court ordered paternity test in order to get child support.

If the father is all around a bad person , I would ask him to sign over his rights for the Child. He would have no visitations or anything. If you go this route , i don’t believe you can get child support.

Since there is a history of DV, make sure it’s all documented. Police calls, hospital visits, everything and anything.

I hope everything works out for you and your baby!!

You are not at all in the wrong! Not at all. Why should he be aloud to come stroll in and be apart of the baby’s life when he threw a fit and you to the curb because he didn’t want said baby in the first place…? I am a baby daddy hater fr. Always entitled to something for doing literally NOTHING 🙄

If someone kicked me out at 5 months pregnant, I would go no contact. They'd be blocked on everything. I wouldn't even know that he wanted to be at the birth.