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Vent About Your Husband/Boyfriend Issues

Intimacy

The first week with my husband blew my mind. I thought we would be all over each other and having sex every night, instead it was 1 time a week. After three weeks I asked if we could try to be more intimate together. We slowly grew more distant to the point of not kissing at all. I thought it was him feeling insecure , or me feeling unworthy of love, and maybe part of that is true.. but when I learned he was sexually abused as a kid I understood more and now I can know how to be. He doesn’t know that I know of his abuse because his ex told me. I don’t want to bring it up if he doesn’t want to, but I hate to suffer physically because I’m pregnant and want sex!!