Husband with no patience AT ALL.
His no patience is getting worse and worse. Like on everything if something is slow or doesn’t meet his standards he would swear and it really annoys me. The most part that pisses me off is when it comes to kids. He has minus patience when it’s about kids. I’ll be honest, he HATES kids making noises especially when they cry.
Just now, this happened. Our youngest is sleeping (she sleeps with us — on her own bed) after she went to playground with no nap so I knew she will be crying in her sleep since she’s too tired. I have the room camera on and I saw her starting to crying (not screaming cry, just whining kind of crying) I was in living room and it took me less than 30 seconds to get to upstairs to the room and my husband (he was sleeping too) was like “ahhh fucking” BECAUSE 1. She cried and it made him wake up 2. Because I came in late. Like she literally just started and he just can’t deal with it.
He said when kids cry his ear drums vibrates and it irritates him. And i get this symptom too but I don’t act the way he does…
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He honestly sounds like a selfish man baby. Stuff happens. Children fuss and cry. He should learn some anger calming techniques, because those outbursts are not okay. A deep sigh I could see, but cursing and despising children making noises is just ridiculous.
if ear plugs worked I wouldn’t be having this problem. You think he wants to sleep uncomfortably with plugs in? I wishhhhhh
like Charlie wrote he’s selfish ass
already talked about it with him. And he use it as insults next time. For ex. After I told him not to curse or talk certain ways but the curse automatically spills out from his mouth, he’ll be like “oh right someone doesn’t like to hear curse ma bad” but in sarcastic tone. And after few days he controls himself and forgets and back to it.
I don’t curse at all so he thinks I’m abnormal for not cursing. But even unnecessary situations he still curses so that’s what I hate about. Like you really have to curse? Then he goes yea it feels good. 🤦♀️ he has no filter in his brain. Doesn’t matter who he talks about there’s always cursing
we have 3 kids. 7,5&3yrs olds. we used to sleep in different room for about 4.5yrs (before we moved to now house we live in) due to him working a lot and he needed to take a deep sleep.
This doesn’t happen every night so now there’s no need to sleep in separate room but let’s say some days our nonverbal autistic son takes longer to fall asleep so he’ll be making noises that would bother my husband. It’s 10-15mins babbling but to him he doesn’t want to hear a single sounds when he sleeps. Of course nobody wants to get disturbed in sleep but I don’t like to hear my husband’s voice.
Also because we only have two bedrooms. One room our oldest is using. autistic son doesn’t like to sleep in that room and my daughter would cry in the middle of the night when she sleeps there. I’ve thought about telling him to sleep in the oldest room and I’ll take the kids and sleep with me but he doesn’t like our son’s bed (full size bed) he said it’s uncomfortable he can’t sleep (he used to sleep in that mattress from old house) our now bed it’s new mattress.
haha it’s all good ❤️
Cursing is one thing, but being pissy over children is totally unacceptable. It’s not like he dropped something or stubbed his toes. He’s actively cursing at and about the children.
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