Any working midnight mamas/ any tips

Looking for other moms who work midnights in ideas on how to get sleep while also making the most of your time with your toddler while also being able to get stuff done around the house. Looking for tips tricks and ideas to make it easier. My partner and I both are on opposite shifts as well he’s in a modified full time afternoons but does lots of overtime as things are expensive and I’m full time nights.
I’m trying to look for a better ways of playing , self care, house work, sleep for both of us, ideas for when the weather is trash and you can’t go outside overall just want to make better use of my time but also take care of me my child and fiancé and household. Also down to make mom friends who work nights.

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Hun this is a SHAM group. But I do want to state that all that shouldn't be a you kinda job but rather both you and your partner so I hope you both are helping each other. Self care for me even as a SHAM is still kinda hard (I do have 4 kids and homeschool)... But everything else I actually do it better if I calendar everything. For example Mondays I clean the bathroom, Tuesdays I vaccum... ect... I cook most of the meals but my big kiddos do the dishes. I also calendar everything I will be teaching or playing by time with my younger kiddos whilest the bigger kids do school work. Thats what has kept my sanity. My husband does the diaper changin whiles he is at home, he feeds one of the kiddos, I feed the other and he honestly tackles one whiles I do the other (but he comes home in the evenings so once we eat is time for the small children to start with the getting ready for sleep process). Best of luck to you guys 🙏🏼

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Sorry this no midnight working moms group I was hoping if I even post in the wrong group I might get pointed in a direction of one 😔I respect and miss being a sahm I’m currently trying to get pregnant so I can go back to it . I didn’t mean to offended anyone in this group I’m sorry

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You arent offending anyone I was just letting you know... I also wouldnt know in what direction to point you in but I gave you some advice 🤗

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